Comparison Traps and Comfort Zone

Dear Diary, Yesterday, I must have come face to face with some ancient issue. In interacting with a potential new coworker, I ended up feeling a little insecure, inadequate—almost like a failure.I can sense there’s always some insecurity in almost everyone when meeting a new colleague, as if they might threaten something. So, people tend… [keep reading]

Unearthing the Roots of Entitlement

Dear Universe, Thank you once again for another incredible insight I just had. It seems I may have a trace of entitlement in me, and if I had to choose the most likely reason among the various possibilities, it could be that my sense of entitlement is actually a defense mechanism against insecurity. I’ll be… [keep reading]