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The Alchemy of Gratitude: Turning Gloom into Gold

Dear Universe, Sorry to be such a downer today, but I think when I’m least inclined to practice gratitude, that’s when it may benefit me the most. Tonight, as I sit here upset, what can I find gratitude in? I realize I have an array of ‘cognitive’ tools at my disposal to counteract this surge… [keep reading]

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Celebrating Others and Embracing Personal Journey

Dear Universe, Today, I’m filled with gratitude for reuniting with an old friend. Seeing her with her partner and their beautiful baby girl was truly heartwarming. While a part of me could easily slip into self-reflection about my own relationship status and the absence of a family of my own, I choose instead to focus… [keep reading]

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Balancing Emotional Boundaries with Empathy

Dear Diary, Yesterday a friend was complaining to me about how she’s been treated by a group of friends I left almost a year ago. At some point, I lost my cool. She was venting to me, seeking attention or perhaps the validation she didn’t find among those same people. What bothered me was that… [keep reading]